Merry Christmas......

Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!!!

Charities for the Holidays

This year we are really making an effort to teach the kids about families that are less fortunate or somehow in need.

I regularly follow the blog Cake Wrecks. It is the most hilarious site dedicated to cakes that have somehow gone horribly wrong. Today is the first day of their 'Christmas Charity Countdown'.
Every day for 12 days Jen will post the link to a different charity and they ask for only a $1 donation. Jen and her hubby started this last year instead of buying each other gifts.

Today's charity is Give Kids the World. This is an awesome organization in Florida that provides no-cost vacations to children with life-threatening illnesses and their families.

So, if you are looking for a way to make a difference, this is a great way to give back and make a huge difference by only spending $12.
We will be donating $5 each day.
And, I challenge you to not miss a day.

~Julie

punkin' seeds....yummy.....

I decided to make use of the gazillions of pumpkin seeds (AKA guts) from our now happy jack o'lanterns.
I found this recipe and it is yummy.

Candied Pumpkin Seeds
Ingredients:

1 cup fresh pumpkin seeds

1/4 cup packed brown sugar
1/2 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
1/4 teaspoon salt










Directions:
*In a small bowl, combine all ingredients. Spread into a greased baking pan.

*Bake, uncovered, at 250° for 45-50 minutes or until seeds are well-glazed, stirring occasionally. (I had to cook mine longer. Try one and see if it is crunchy enough for your taste.)

*Cool completely; break into pieces. Store in an airtight container. Yield: 1 cup.

(I made several batches to use all of our seeds.)

Yummy!!!!

Joel Burns.....one courageous man

As many of you know, there have been several teen suicides lately attributed to bullying. Forth Worth, Texas City Councilman Joel Burns shared his story recently.
Please watch this and pass this on to anyone that might benefit from it.

Grover

The kids love to take Grover with us for rides and when we head to the bus stop. Of course, he thinks the front seat is reserved for him.

girls best friend

S and the pup fell asleep together on the couch today.....so cute!

grease lightnin'

There is a really cool theater just up the street from our store. They show all kinds of indie films and some mainstream ones as well.
Last Saturday night they had Grease Sing Along. That's right! The original 1978 Grease, only better. I had a blast. It didn't matter how well or not you could sing, everyone belted out their favorite songs.
Here is the website: Grease
Check it out if it comes to your town.

sunflowers!!!!

We went to Gorman Heritage Farm on Sunday with D and his Cub Scout den. The sunflowers were beautiful!
(I'm not sure why the picture came out this way but it looks pretty cool.)

squid dogs....

So I made these a while back and the kids loved them. I found a similar idea in some magazine but don't remember which one.
Here goes.....super easy and the kids liked helping make them.

Start with spaghetti and hot dogs. You need 4 strands per half dog, so 8 strands per dog.

Trim the round ends off the hot dogs and then cut remaining dog in half. Poke 4 strands of spaghetti through each half dog until an even amount is sticking out each end. Then just boil until spaghetti is done.

Voila! Squid dogs for the kids to enjoy.

My kids ask for these a lot. Have fun!

drawings on concrete.....

We took the kiddos to a local festival this weekend. It is called 'Streetscapes' and artists donate their time to recreate famous paintings on the street with chalk. It is really quite amazing how much detail they are able to capture on such a rough surface.

This picture was huge. It is as wide as the street. Really impressive up close but hard to get a good photo.

I'm not sure why, but I really liked this one. The detail was amazing.

walking for a good cause.....

So today I promise not to be so serious. I walked with a group of amazing ladies for the 5k with on Saturday. Money raised goes to research for ovarian cancer. The weather was great.....except for a some rain during mile 2.
In this pic, there are:

4 triplet moms

2 quad moms

1 quad grandmother

my revelation.....

Here I sit at 5am, unable to sleep, just hours before walking my second 5k, having been up most of the night with a sick little one. You know how these things work....your mind wanders, into strange little crevices you don't dare enter for fear of having to actually deal with your stupid hang-ups. Well folks....that is me for the last few hours, and no matter how I try to ignore it, my brain keeps saying, "deal with it dumbass".
So, here goes....
First, let me say that I have never been skinny, by that I mean I have always been a size 12+, my family says pretty much since puberty. I was still active, loved riding bikes and such, but no exercise fanatic by any means. I've always prided myself on finding the closest parking spots....hehehe uugghhhh.
Let me add  that I was blessed with my mother's height, 5'2". Acutally, I am taller than she was. So being a size 12+ and short to boot changes my whole image....just a teensy bit. But I digress.

When I met my hubby I was around 230. He loves me, always has, loves my body, thinks I'm perfect, wouldn't ask me to change myself for anything in the world. So that should make me happy with myself. Problem solved. Move on to solving world peace or some other such nonsense, Right?
Hell NO!!! I am a woman after all....the most screwed up creature on the planet when it comes to self image. So I look at myself critically day-in and day-out wondering what the quickest/easiest thing to change is for the most dramatic and noticeable results.

After having my first son, I was still at the same weight as before. I had been horribly sick the entire pregnancy and actually lost weight throughout. So while I wasn't happy with my weight, at least I hadn't gained. So I could live with that. Sortof.
During the triplet pregnancy, it was pretty much the same. Actually maintaining the pregnancy was quite difficult because for the first 4 months or so I could barely keep enough food down to even be considered a healthy pregnancy....but I did the best I could...even though at every appointment I would have lost 3 or 4 more pounds. So that by the time I delivered and had my 6 week post checkup I was down around 195. Down 35 pounds !!!  (Not a recommend weight loss tool, in case you were wondering.)
Let's just say that I took that weight loss for granted AKA got caught up in just trying to keep up with 4 kiddos under the age of 3. In other words, those pounds I had lost.....found their nasty little way back to me....mostly on my ass.

So, here is where I am was totally out of my rational thinking. When I in my early 20's I had this strange ideal for myself. I too could be a size 5 just like all those other skinny bitches lovely ladies I saw wearing cute hip clothes. No more shopping in the plus department, where at 20ish I had very few choices unless I loved floral prints the size of my head. But no matter how I starved myself it just didn't work...what was I doing wrong? It works in the movies, and for the models....yada yada yada
So, needless to say, it took me many, many, many years to realize and accept the fact that I just wasn't meant to be a size 5. How could all of those 'ideal body weight' charts have been so wrong. Oh...I know. A man invented them...explains it all. I mean seriously, how can every 5'2" woman in the world weigh 'at max' 145. How the hell is that 'realistic'.?

So, fast forward to...let's say....the last 10 months or so. I am a member of a trip/quad mom support group. An awesome group of ladies that actually 'get it' when it comes to dealing with raising so many kids. So, we decided to start a Biggest Loser group. Which brings me partially to my ranting this fine, early, crack of dawn September morning.....another BL mom posted that since December she has lost 30 pounds. That is awesome and I am so happy for her. I know she has worked hard for that.
Because the revelation here is that it took me 37 years to let my body get to the point of being 245 pounds. The heaviest I have ever been. I can't believe I am even typing this for any stranger that finds my page to read. I am literally in tears as I type and my hands are shaking and I'm feeling all sweaty nervous that people might know what I really weigh.
What a fucked up society that can make a grown woman with a loving husband and 4 wonderful children feel like a complete failure for not having it all together, or at least their idea of 'together'.

And, I guess it will take longer than 10 months to get to a healthier point. I mean 37 years compared to 10 months. No question which side has been winning.....up to this point. But no more, I am done. From now on, I am going to do my best every day to become just a little bit healthier. And, I know it won't happen overnight or even in a month or six months. It will be for the rest of my life that I have to make these changes. What do I want to weigh? I don't care, I don't know and I may never know. What I do know is that I owe it to myself and my family to be healthier....hell, as healthy as I can be. So that I can be a better happier person for myself and them.
And maybe, just maybe, show my children that it's okay to not be 'perfect'.
And it would be really nice to leave that damn 'plus size' department and never need to enter it again.
And, just to be fair, I am actually at 230 now. Yes, folks, I have lost 15 in the last 8 or so weeks. We are on our second round of BL.

So, if you see me and I am being a littly bitchy, self deprecating, not accepting compliments etc.....bear with me. It has taken my entire life to get to this point and it will take a little while longer to change my thinking habits as well as my thoughts on myself.

Queen Bee....or.....?????

So, I am reading to the boys tonight at bedtime...Goodnight Moon is a fave in our house....M & E were fighting over it tonight......I digress....D pipes up yada yada drag queen yada yada .......
what, huh, repeat please..!!!
D: 'you know a drag queen'.
me: 'what are you talking about?!!?'
D: 'a man that wears girl clothes'
me: 'how do you know this?'
D: 'that bee show'
me: 'what bee show'
D: 'the one with the flowers and the queen bee'
me: 'Oh! The Bee Movie?'
D: 'Yea, that bee show'
me: 'and it has drag queens in it?'
D: 'yea and the queen bee' (thinking his mother is completely ignorant at this point)
me: 'So, is the queen bee a girl or a drag queen?'
D: 'a drag queen'
me: 'Oh!! honey, you probably shouldn't go around saying that at school. It might be kind of hard to explain to the teacher'
D: 'not for me, I understand it is a man that wears girl clothes'

Geeeessshhhhhhhh.............guess he told me.
Where the hell do they come up with this stuff?
I swear I have watched that movie A LOT and never realized they had cross dressing bees in it.........

Let there be school.......

Yes folks, it is that time of year again.....Our kids leave us and go to school to give us much needed freedom learn all kinds of useful information. D is now in 1st grade and he is slowly adjusting to being in school all day. M/E/S are now officially preschoolers and they seem to love it. We split them into 3 classes so they each have their own friends/experiences and aren't known as 'the triplets'.

S, E, M & D ready for the school bus.

Our summer trip

We took the kids to Chicago this summer....had a blast...did you know every building in Chicago has a revolving door ? My kids made it their personal mission to go through every single one of them......maybe it just seemed like we went through gazillions of them...they did love riding the buses and subway....Awesome food in Greektown...Ghiradelli ice cream....Lego store....Hello Kitty store....museums, museums and more museums....American Girl.....Gino's East.....Portillo's Hot Dogs....

A Woman's Perfect Breakfast..........

WOMAN'S PERFECT BREAKFAST


She's sitting at the table with her gourmet coffee.

Her son is on the cover of the Wheaties box.

Her daughter is on the cover of Business Week.

Her boyfriend is on the cover of Playgirl.

And her husband is on the back of the milk carton.

Pigs fly................

My fellow triplet moms and I after we finished the Flying Pig 5k. It was a great day for all of us.

My new motto is: 'The miracle isn't that I finished. The miracle is that I had the courage to start.'-John Bingham

eeewwwwww............

This is what happens when you leave the room for more than 5 minutes and the kids decide they want a snack from the fridge.

scrap treasures

A mom's group I belong to recently did a scrap swap.
Here is what was made for me.
Awesome job! Thanks Kathi!!!!

 Below is a market bag, complete with huge front pocket. llloooooovvvvvvveeee  it......

A great set of coasters.

A travel bag. Look at all of the quiliting both inside and out.

the day the music died......

On this day (February 3rd) in 1959, Buddy Holly, Richie Valens and the Big Bopper died in a plane crash while en route from Iowa to Minnesota.
Originally, Waylon Jennings and Holly's bandmate Tommy Allsup were to be on the plane. However, due to last minute decisions, they gave up their seats for Valens and the Bopper.
It is so sad that all of that young and amazing talent was lost that fateful night, most contribute to bad weather and somewhat to the error of an inexperienced pilot.
May their memories be eternal!

free to good home..................

FREE TO GOOD HOME
4 children, 2 male 2 female, one is housebroken, very affectionate, well behaved around strangers, feed themselves.
If interested, email: theyredrivingmecrazy@helpme.com

can you tell that today was a little rough for me? That is what happens when almost three2 year old triplets miss their naps and then get all stir crazy. We ended up turning off the TV and dancing to XM radio to settle everyone down. M definitely has rhythm.

hug a squirrel

January 21st....
We have two great reasons to enjoy today.....we get to celebrate 'national hugging day' and 'squirrel appreciation day'....
So, hug all of your family and friends and even strangers if that makes you happy....just don't invade my personal space...jus' sayin'..
I suppose if you really want you can hug a squirrel...or try...text me your room number and I'll send flowers....or nuts..

want to play hooky today????

January 17th is...
Ditch New Years Resolutions Day
This is your free ticket to do whatever the heck you want to do today...tomorrow it will be as if today never happened...I'll just keep telling myself that...think it will work??

dream a little....really....no, really....

January 13th....we have two different things to celebrate today...

1st....make your dream come true day
.......dream a little dream for me.....


2nd....international skeptics day
....honestly, this is a recognized day....seriously, it is...I'm telling you the truth.
Okay..fine...don't believe...what do I care...

ladies....today is an interesting day.....

Today....January 12th....is....Feast of Fabulous Wild Men Day....not a clue where this 'feast day' came from but enjoy it just the same....guess I'll need to give my man a little extra luvin'....hehe...

how to cut down on airport security lines.......

NEW AIRPORT CHECK-IN ATTIRE.....of course, you still have to remove your shoes.




(not sure where this originally came from, if anyone knows pass it on so I can give credit where credit is due)
(for now I'm just gonna say 'thanks dad'...hehe...)

the frozen tundra.........

Hubby and I went on a weekend trip to Chicago for New Years. It was our first trip away together since D was born 5&1/2 years ago. My wonderful SIL stayed with the monkeys so we could go.

Did we have fun?? YES
Was it cold?? ONLY IF YOU WANT TO ACTUALLY FEEL YOUR EXTREMITIES

I don't think we have ever been so cold. The high was 7degrees....bbrrrrr....it makes me cold just thinking about it.
I will post more about our incredible meal once I get the pics on my computer.
BUT....I wanted to share what I bought on our trip.....



Need I say more?????
didn't think so.
(if you don't recognize the packaging, you wouldn't understand anyways)

Stay warm......baby it's cold outside...

January 7th

Celebrate.........OLD ROCK DAY!!!!
It's true. I didn't make this up.
Old Rock Day is an opportunity to enjoy and appreciate old rocks and fossils. Perhaps you can start a rock collection. You can go out on a field trip in search of old fossils (the rock kind). Or, if you choose, you can just play with old rocks.

There is little information available on what this day was truly meant to mean. So, the interpretation and the means of celebration is left up to you.

By definition, fossils are old rocks. Jewelry stones are old rocks. And, coal is an old rock, too. You can celebrate any or all of these old rocks today.

personally I like to celebrate those old diamond rocks..hehe..